Who am I

Dear diary,

So who am I? I asked some of my closest friends and family to describe me in a few words as I found this question quite difficult.. amongst many words I was described as, a control freak, stubborn, selfless, wise, supportive, inspirational and “weirdly masculine” yes you heard right weirdly masculine.. don’t really know what to make of that but moving on swiftly!

Where do I start? (From the beginning I guess). Let me start by letting you know that I am by no means an expert at writing! However, I’ve been been on maternity leave with my second son for around 6 weeks and whilst off I’ve been looking for blogs and vlogs that I can sink my teeth into to help me overcome this daunting time that is the transition from one to two kids.. and how to look half decent while trying to conquer such a mission lol so far I’ve failed miserably! Whilst I have found some amazing vlogs and a couple of blogs I thought I would have a go at this blog stuff and share snippets of my crazy life trying to take over the world (with two kids in tow LOL, this should be fun).

So you have an idea of the kind of topics I will delve into on my blog I just want to give you a little “blurb” about my life! I’m a 27 year old city girl and a mother of two, to a crazy 3 year old who is currently going through the “I’m right your wrong stage” and a 6 week old baby boy who has literally arrived and taken over the whole household with what we call the enemy of motherhood COLIC (I’ll save that story for another day). While being a mother of two gorgeous boys I work full time in the Criminal Justice System, maintain a home (well at least try LOL) and have a fiancé who I’ve been engaged to for 7 years (ages I know again that’s a story for another day LOL). I’m a fun loving girl who loves to be pampered, go on girly dinner dates, shop and have a gossip over a glass of baileys, which I feel at times has been the topic of conversation amongst other mothers who feel I should be at home 24/7 baking cakes and never leaving my house unless I am with my children! Firstly, NO! I am a mother first, however I am an individual who deserves and insists on having me time, as should every other mother to prevent insanity haha! (Again I go off track lol). So to save us all some time I would like to list some of the stuff that is close to my heart that I will be blogging about, Motherhood, transition from one to two, how I juggle my career, family and fiancé, relationships, girl talk, stereotypes, fashion and style!

So I suppose you’re probably wondering the type of people I will be able to relate to during my dear diary journey (If anyone LOL). I would say, young mothers although I’m not super young I would consider myself still 18 in spirit! Working mothers, career driven women, mothers to be, those who are starting out in life with families, mortgages, Independecy and financial aspects of life and finally those who love to live and live to love!

I highly encourage comments, suggestions and questions from my readers as it helps me to get to know what you all like to read and whether I am talking complete nonsense ha-ha!

Can’t wait to start my journey with you all.. And connect with likewise women for a chin wag haha!!

With Love From P


  1. Hs
    April 28, 2018 / 8:47 pm

    Amazing first blog post, can’t wait for the second instalment!

  2. April 28, 2018 / 9:06 pm

    Great first post, look forward to reading more! Well done for beginning and keep moving forward xx

  3. Cassie Johnson
    April 28, 2018 / 10:26 pm

    I love this and i can’t wait to read more…. ur inspiring me!

  4. KDH
    April 29, 2018 / 11:50 am

    Really enjoyed your first post, I can’t wait for the next, I know already how much I’m going to relate to your lifestyle and views!
    P.s Love the pic inspo

  5. sosaidmom
    April 29, 2018 / 12:57 pm

    Great first post! It seems you will have plenty to talk about and I can’t wait to follow your blogging journey! Best of luck!

  6. April 29, 2018 / 1:39 pm

    Congrats on your second…it definitely takes some adjusting with another little running around! Sending best wishes!

    • April 29, 2018 / 2:44 pm

      It certainly is a whole new world from life with one! 6 weeks in and I’m still adjusting to life with this scary but cute little human LOL! Thank you x

  7. April 29, 2018 / 2:28 pm

    Great first post I can’t wait to follow your journey 👌🏾

  8. Todra Richardson
    April 29, 2018 / 2:31 pm

    Let’s get this journey going. I would have liked to know the area in which you live to give me a idea of your surroundings if that’s not too personal. Just like for example I live in South Florida.

    • April 29, 2018 / 2:43 pm

      Thank you for your feedback this really helps me to improve my writing! I am from the UK. where I live is very built up, with very little greenery! I have always wanted to visit Florida, it’s on my bucket list 😍

  9. April 29, 2018 / 6:42 pm

    Good luck starting the blog! It sounds like so much has happened in your life that you can document. Honestly, I’m thinking of starting a family soon as well so any posts about what it’s like to have a new born would be great. But, don’t sugar coat it, I guess. Be honest and real, those are the best blogs to read. <3

    • May 1, 2018 / 9:24 pm

      Congratulations, starting family is the most amazing life change! I look forward to watching your journey! Thank you so much for the advice, I will take this on board x

  10. April 29, 2018 / 7:07 pm

    So exciting about your first post and your new life as a mom of two! I have a 5 year old and a 19 month old. It is crazy but so much fun

    • May 1, 2018 / 9:24 pm

      Crazy is an understatement haha! But we wouldn’t have it any other way ❤️

  11. April 29, 2018 / 7:32 pm

    What a great first blog! It was so interesting to learn a little about you and I look forward to following your blog as you go along! Blogging is so much fun, enjoy it!

  12. Kaitlyn
    April 29, 2018 / 8:38 pm

    This was a nice first post! Can’t wait to see what else you write (:

  13. 4girls8names
    April 29, 2018 / 8:48 pm

    Welcome to the blogging world! I hope you will find it as therapeutic as I do- it can be such a lifeline during life with little ones!

  14. April 29, 2018 / 10:16 pm

    That s such a great blog post! I must say I love the way you are writing and how you make me feel by reading your blog! Simply amazing!

  15. tadpole2
    April 29, 2018 / 11:45 pm

    Good luck with all of your endeavors. It sounds like your a busy mom. So far so good on the blogging. Can’t wait to see what you come up with next.

  16. April 30, 2018 / 2:17 am

    Uh, the”I’m right, you’re wrong stage” is a cycling problem. It will be back…again and again! Good luck on your journey. Love reading.

    • May 1, 2018 / 9:26 pm

      LOL oh dear, the only thing that was keeping going was the fact that it may end soon 😂 maybe not! Thank you for reading x

  17. April 30, 2018 / 8:36 am

    Welcome to the blogosphere and yes, good luck on your blogging journey. You must be so excited to share with us your life’s journey…I’d love to know more about how you handle your kids now that I love kids too much since they’re almost always a cute body of innocent souls.

    • May 1, 2018 / 9:01 pm

      Thank you for reading! There will be plenty of mum posts. X

  18. Thebloomsite Network
    April 30, 2018 / 11:01 am

    I know how it feels like to go from 1 to 2.

    Me time is very necessary even if 30mins. You need that time to refuel.

    • May 1, 2018 / 9:00 pm

      It is a must to stay sane! I tend to prolong my toilet visit just to get some peace and quiet!

  19. Karamel KC
    April 30, 2018 / 11:34 am

    Great start. Mom’s are so impressive and you seem to be a very busy one. All the best on your journey

    • May 1, 2018 / 8:59 pm

      Thank you, it’s non stop but I wouldn’t have it any other way! Thank you for reading hun x

  20. justbusylovinglife
    April 30, 2018 / 12:48 pm

    So happy to follow along with your journey! I am a mom blogger as well. I consider myself young (in heart at least!)

  21. May 1, 2018 / 5:33 am

    Congrats Mom of two! Love that you’re sharing your journey with the world – l enjoy reading all the different people leading different lives.

  22. May 1, 2018 / 7:45 am

    Such a great little glimpse into the person that is you. I will enjoy reading and learning about you and your journey on this blog.

  23. kim
    May 1, 2018 / 6:52 pm

    Congratulations on your new addition! I know it is exciting but it also super hard! Hang in there! This blog is a great way to document your journey

  24. May 2, 2018 / 2:35 am

    this is a great start! so important to be able to connect with the writer. looking forward to you expanding of those stories!

  25. califfcreations
    May 2, 2018 / 5:26 pm

    Great start! I relate to the part about not being great at writing. I’ve actually been told my whole life that it was something that I wasn’t good at. It’s weird to be trying to make an income with it now!

    • May 2, 2018 / 8:39 pm

      See anything is possible, how inspiring! I wish you all the best on your blogging venture!

  26. May 2, 2018 / 7:49 pm

    Loved to read about you! Wish you all the best for your new blogging experience!

  27. May 4, 2018 / 3:35 am

    You did an awesome first post. There’s no right and wrong with what you write about. Be creative and have fun! Good luck with your blogging journey 🙂

  28. toughcookiemommy
    May 13, 2018 / 9:19 pm

    It’s great to be introduced to you. I’m looking forward to finding out more about you in your second post.

  29. May 27, 2018 / 7:27 pm

    Your post is both informative & hilarious. I am C section mom, my experience with was very pleasant though. I could actually do it all over given the chance. 😜

    • May 27, 2018 / 7:29 pm

      It’s so nice to hear from another C-section Mum. So glad you had a good experience. I would agree that my second one was great as well. Thank you so much for reading x

  30. September 2, 2018 / 2:52 am

    I can’t wait!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we have a lot in common so far. I’m stoked to keep up with you! Bring it on!!

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