11 signs the honey moon period is over


The honey moon period.. What a wonderful world of flowers, chocolates, cute dinner dates, ironically you agree on everything (number of kids you want, your fave holiday location). You look glowing and happy, your best perfume makes an appearance, Victoria secrets staff members know your name, the world around you disappears.

I thought I’d delve into the world of relationships as you guys probably think I have an imaginary boyfriend, so I thought I’d better incorporate him at some point 😂

The world of the honeymoon periods is a thing of the past for me, 10 years in the past to be precise. But if I’m being honest my honey moon period lasted for the best part of 5 years.. No arguments or disagreements (could partly be do with the fact that we were long distance for 3 of the 10 years 😂). You can read more about our journey in “A no flaws relationship”  

People say they don’t want the infamous “honey period” to end as the cute gestures stop but If I’m honest I was pretty glad when they fizzled out. I didn’t have to pretend to be perfect anymore, i didn’t have to wake up before him to brush my hair and teeth. 

With that being said there’s pros and cons to both and most definitely CLEAR signs the honey moon period is over.. You may be able to relate. 

11 signs the honey moon period is never to return

The lack of toilet etiquette 

He thinks it’s ok to burst into the bathroom while I’m having a pamper session, candles lit, lavender in the bath. He decides it’s the perfect opportunity to sit on the toilet and talk to me about the meaning of life? 

Why don’t you…. anymore 

Now I start my sentences why “babe why don’t you do …… anymore”. It’s normally me asking why he doesn’t buy me flowers anymore? Him: “Because on your birthday in 2010 they died because you didn’t look after them, I’m not buying you anymore” this is true but like i said I’m a new woman now. I have children, I know how to look after things. 

We have our own lives 

We can’t wait to have a break from each other, we have a break from each other and miss each other, we reunite and piss each other off again. Him: “oh so you’re still annoying” 😂😂 Me: “Yupp” 

Holding the door open.. yeh right

Suddenly the doors being opened for you stops and Instead end up merely missing your face (ok this could just apply to my relationship😂). Suddenly he stops pulling the chair out for me at dinner. Me: “It’s ok I’ll get this”. You wait on your side of the car to have the door opened for you like old times but you realise he’s already in the house LMAO. 

I mean I tell him that he deserves and Oscar for his awarding winning performance during the honey moon period, and that it was false advertisement that won him two kids and a fiancée lmao. We laugh and he says “it’s too late now, all signed up”

You become telepathic

Suddenly he knows exactly what I’m thinking without me even saying it. Particularly when I’m pissed off. It normally goes something like this “%@##@#£&£*”

You know how to push each others buttons

This normally consists of him leaving the toilet seat up or putting his dirty socks next to the laundry basket not in. He knows that one really sends me psycho. 

Despite all this I want to address the sweet side chapter after the honey period because this honestly is my favourite. 

You grow in sync 

You become so ridiculously in sync. I know it may sound so cliché but once you overcome the honey moon period, the feeling of being in sync is magical. There’s no room for awkward conversations because you just ”get each other”. So many times me and my partner have called each other at the same time to ask the exact same question. Too many times we have come home with the identical trainers for our little boys. We can finish each others sentences. We do amazing Impressions of each other. 

He knows how you feel by Just one look

He knows the inner layers of me. He senses the emotion in my eyes. And he reacts accordingly. Isn’t it crazy that no matter how hard you try to conceal your emotion your partner just knows when somethings up. 

You accept each other in your most vulnerable form

My partner has seen me stripped of all my layers, he’s seen my ugly cry (and it’s not very nice 😂). A side of me that no-one has ever seen or will ever see. 

When we see social media we see the beauty of relationships, the love. We see the fun, we see the presents with the huge bows. But vulnerability is what makes a  relationship beautiful and unique. Many times I’ve had a difficult day of motherhood or I’ve had a hard day at work and held back the tears. Waited till I’ve got home to my other half and just poured my heart out. 

Silence is golden 

When you’re comfortable being in each others surroundings without a word spoken. There are no awkward silences, no desire to exchange words. And no verbal affirmations are required. 

The look

The look you give each other in a room full of people but only you two notice. There’s nothing that makes me feel more attractive than noticing him stare over at me and admire from a distance. And that’s after 10 years. 

I would love to know how long you’ve been with your partner and what makes your bond special?

Honey moon period


  1. October 5, 2018 / 1:34 pm

    I related to so MANY things in this article! Your example were not only true but humorous. There is an end to that “honey period” and that telepathy..well it glitches from time to time on one of our end’s..not naming names..husband!!!!

    • Withlovefromp@hotmail.com
      October 9, 2018 / 6:16 pm

      Lmaooo I love this comment. Hilarious.

  2. Mel
    October 5, 2018 / 3:41 pm

    An entertaining read as always, I can definitely relate 😁❤️

    • Withlovefromp@hotmail.com
      October 9, 2018 / 6:15 pm

      Haha glad you enjoyed. Thanks for reading ❤️

  3. October 5, 2018 / 4:02 pm

    Lol love this. And totally agree hahaha. I’ve been with A for 12 years and married for 8 and we definitely annoy each other like no other ;). We totally have the Look thing down and our special bond consists of laughing at each other’s pettiness after a fight. 😂

    • Withlovefromp@hotmail.com
      October 9, 2018 / 6:15 pm

      Wow 12 years. That’s beautiful 😍 and yes the look is everything. Thanks for supporting as always.

  4. October 5, 2018 / 8:02 pm

    My hubby and I have been together for 3 years and our honeymoon period is over lol. But he still opens doors for me. And it’s always nice that I can just be so comfortable around him. I can really relate to the dirty socks by the laundry basket. Haha

    • Withlovefromp@hotmail.com
      October 9, 2018 / 6:14 pm

      The dirty socks by the washing basket will be the death of him 😂 thanks for reading.

  5. Chelsea
    October 9, 2018 / 2:04 pm

    Post made me giggle🤣 bring on the next one! Good read as usual

    • Withlovefromp@hotmail.com
      October 9, 2018 / 6:13 pm

      Haha! Thanks lovely. And thank you for reading ❤️

  6. October 11, 2018 / 5:02 pm

    Oh I really loved reading this! I can relate to so many of them but I must admit, being a mum of three I do sometimes crave the honeymoon period again just to feel like more than a mum and maid lol xx

  7. October 11, 2018 / 5:43 pm

    My hubby and I have been together for 18 years and there are some things we love about each other and some things we hate about each other. But oh, the comfortable silences. I love them!

  8. October 11, 2018 / 5:59 pm

    so true and I love the humour behind it as well. On a serious note, we move into a different phase, and I love the fact that we are now so in sync and what we have made together….although I wouldn’t say no to some surprise flowers!!

  9. Wendy
    October 12, 2018 / 8:17 am

    Nodded along to all of this! I’ve been with my husband for 9years (married for 5) and our relationship now is nothing like it was at the start. The honeymoon period and all the getting to know each other was fun and exciting but I love how comfortable and content we are with each other now xx

  10. October 12, 2018 / 8:40 am

    I’ve been with my other half almost 7 years. Yes the honeymoon period definitely leaves when you move in together and even more so post child. You then become a team! I don’t miss the days of ordering salad and getting up early to do my make up!

  11. October 12, 2018 / 10:38 am

    Spot on! Accepting each other in the most vulnerable form is a must and deffo a sign a relationship has moved on a stage xx

  12. October 14, 2018 / 6:12 am

    I’ve been with my husband for 12 years (married for 4). The flowers comment made me laugh because my other half says the same to me!! X

    • Withlovefromp@hotmail.com
      October 16, 2018 / 9:38 pm

      I’m so glad I’m not alone. Maybe one day I’ll get another bunch 😂

  13. October 15, 2018 / 3:32 pm

    It’s lovely that the two of you are so close! The flower bit made me laugh, because it’s usually the first thing that goes, isn’t it?

    • Withlovefromp@hotmail.com
      October 16, 2018 / 9:32 pm

      Yes, he’s definitely my soul mate! Yupp the whole flower thing is just out the window HAHA

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