Abuse: Talking To Your Child

Hey Lovely’s,

I wasn’t scheduled to do another blog post until Friday. However yesterday I put a post up on Instagram about talking to your child about abuse “The Pants Rule” and I had an overwhelming response in my messages with questions about the Initiative that NSPCC introduced in 2016.

So the main principle is to help protect your child from abuse. NSPCC provide a really fun way of explaining by incorporating a dinosaur by the name of Pantosaurus. The website provides, videos, games , fun activity packs and a downloadable app. Talking about such a sensitive subject with a child can be difficult. However these resources really makes it a fun learning experience for both you and your child.

That being said I just want to do a quick post with information about “talk pants”. My son is 3 years old and the video and resources that are on the site helped me significantly in explaining abuse to him. To check out the website please CLICK HERE

I hope you find this helpful.

With Love From P.


  1. June 7, 2018 / 6:57 pm

    Love this! I always am scared of what may happen when I’m not with my kiddos but this is very helpful in explaining to them what is appropriate and what is not. Especially the no means no even to family members. My daughter likes to please others so I have to always remind her it’s ok to say no. Anyway, thanks for this awesome post!

  2. June 7, 2018 / 7:06 pm

    I totally agree with you! I think a lot of people find this a very controversial subject and a lot of people thought my 3 year old was to young for this.. In my opinion he is not as I’m not with him 24/7 and I want him to be safe.. thank you so much for reading and I’m so glad you find it helpful hun x

  3. June 11, 2018 / 10:04 pm

    Glad I came across this. Very informative

    • June 11, 2018 / 10:15 pm

      It’s definitely a must in the world we live in today!!

  4. June 15, 2018 / 5:44 pm

    Thanks for posting this! This will be super helpful when my son gets old enough to understand.

    • June 20, 2018 / 5:04 am

      Yes such it’s so user friendly for a child. Thanks for reading x

  5. June 17, 2018 / 12:15 pm

    Great post! It’s such a controversial topic and I think this is a great way to break it down when explaining it to a child! 😀 xx

    • June 20, 2018 / 5:05 am

      Yes I most definitely agree that it’s a controversial topic, but one that could make such a difference if explained x

  6. June 19, 2018 / 9:05 pm

    It’s such an important campaign and whilst I know my boys are never out of my sight to worry just yet, when the time is right I’ll certainly be discussing it with them.

    • June 20, 2018 / 8:28 am

      It’s honestly a scary thought as a mother. But you can never be to careful. And you’ll have your little one single along to all the songs lol. Priceless.

  7. June 20, 2018 / 7:16 am

    This looks like a good way to try and explain a really difficult topic to little ones – my son is only one, and the thought of broaching the subject with him already make s me feel uncomfortable. It’s sad that in this day and age these are things we have to do as parents!

    • June 20, 2018 / 8:23 am

      Thank you for reading lovely. It most certainly is a difficult topic.. however it’s made so much easier with this resource.

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